How Twitter Changed My Perception Of Internet Relationships
I've always felt that the internet didn't focus on relationships. People would just expect you to do things for them and that pushed me away from making friends.
Platforms like LinkedIn and Instagram haven't been (for me), the greatest at building relationships. Sure, you make some friends but that's about it. I joined Twitter as a ghost - no picture, name, etc.
What I experienced in a few days changed my perception of the platform completely.
People share. A LOT!
It's only toxic if you follow toxic content.
Not everyone is a troll (in the creator space at least)
These reasons were enough for me to give it a fair shot. Here's what I learned and practiced along the way:
Step 1: Rules of Engagement
Genuine engagement is key.
Don't expect a couple of "thanks" and "awesome" to work. Elaborate on what resonated with you or what stood out. Be specific and don't comment for the sake of it. That keeps you authentic. Faking it will only get you so far.
If you're lucky your favorite people might respond.
Step 2: Provide Value And Receive It In Return
Along with engagement, providing value is comes in handy.
Value can be provided directly via content, but also by active discussion. Dropping tweets that have no takeaways aren't your best bet. People like it when their time spent is rewarded.
Step 3: Treasure Trove Of New Learning
Twitter is the university you want to be in, not WhatsApp 🙄.
The array of topics people discuss on Twitter is massive. To make it better, the actionable takeaways are valuable. Got some good writing advice from there myself 😄
“To be interesting, be interested.” ―Dale Carnegie